13 September 2015

Enjoying Port Stephens

Barbara and I enjoyed five days in Port Stephens from Monday to Friday last week.  We stayed in Shoal Bay which is at the southern headland.  We walked out to the World War II gun emplacements on the headland, enjoyed lots of seafood, slept, watched the excellent Australian drama A Place to Call Home series one and two and spent an afternoon at Soldiers Point.

Over the last week or so I have felt normal, whatever ‘normal’ is for me.  Our holiday helped.  It is good to feel better than I have for quite a while.

Today I am sharing some photos from the headland, Shoal Bay and Soldiers Point.

On the headland


Shoal Bay on the jetty with headland in the background



View from our apartment

At Soldiers Point









06 September 2015

The Outlier Advantage


Monday 31 August Barbara and I met with Dr Kate Mahon, my oncologist.  During our discussion, Kate mentioned that I am an outlier.  In March 2011, when I was diagnosed, my statistical life expectancy was one to five years.  Four and a half years later I am likely to live for many more years.  I am fortunate that I have continued in relatively very good health for someone in my situation.  This makes me an ‘outlier’, in that I am a person beyond the normal statistical situation.

This second round of chemotherapy from Monday to Wednesday was more comfortable than the first round.  I think this was at least partially due to it being more time since a stent was inserted between my left kidney and bladder.

However, I have had some problems with my colostomy bag.  I seemed to have some allergic reaction in my skin from this second chemo round.  There were some spots on my stomach and chest, a couple of which were in the area of where the colostomy bag covers my skin.  I had a red rash around the perimeter of where the colostomy bag attaches.  Thursday afternoon I met with Lesley, the senior stoma nurse at Royal Prince Alfred Hospital.  She examined the colostomy bag area.  I will be trying a couple of other types of colostomy bags over the next few weeks.  Thankfully, the rash has settled down and I am now more comfortable.

2015 is the year of a multiplying of issues relating to my cancer and my treatment for the cancer.  Hence it has been good to enjoy catching up with some family and friends – diversion therapy helps.  Tuesday night Barbara and I met Pam and Allan at Sydney Airport on their return from Uganda.  Wednesday night our daughter joined Barbara and I for dinner out at a Thai restaurant to celebrate Barbara’s birthday.  Thursday, Maureen and Glenn came for morning tea.  Friday, second cousins Tim, Kylie and Simon came for afternoon tea.  Saturday friends Hugh and Barbie came for a late lunch and late afternoon Barbara and I went to Balmoral Beach.  There our children and grandchildren met us to for our family celebration of Barbara’s birthday and Fathers’ Day.  Though a cool and cloudy afternoon, the granddaughters loved playing on the beach.  A wedding group had photos taken nearby.  We enjoyed an early dinner of fish and chips.

Today, Sunday, in the evening, Barbara and I are speaking about The BezCan Project at Holy Trinity, Pam and Allan’s Church.  They will be there too.


I hope you enjoy these Balmoral Beach family photos.